Ini Luahan Ibu Salah Seorang Mangsa Seksual Di Maahad Tahfiz Ustaz Popular.
Salah seorang mangsa yg belajar kat mahaad tu ;
Just recently there was shocking news of a child abuse case in a Maahad Tahfiz upnorth. I myself having a son in one of this maahad would like to share what happened to my son recently this year, and I hope by sharing this parents will choose wisely where they plan to send their children, should they want their child to pursue religious studies.
My son is 10 years old and he was talented in memorizing short surahs from the Quran so we thought he would be the perfect candidate for the upcoming interview in one of the most popular maahad tahfiz. We decided to register him in this maahad and since the entrance is highly contested through a series of tests we were beaming with pride when he was one of the few selected from a batch of 4,000 candidates. It was a dream came true to have our son in of Malaysia’s most prestigious maahad.
Little did we know we were sending our son to the depths of hell. Initially, my son’s batch of thirty 10-year-olds were sent to a rural area to isolate them from the influences of city life. Things were running quite well at this place and we were more than satisfied with his performance academically and his memorization of the Al-Quran.
Then one day this maahad had management issues and decided to sell off their rural branch and transferred all the 10 year olds to their headquarters where the older boys (secondary school) were located and that is when my son’s physical and mental torture began.
In May he came home for the school holidays and we saw bruises on his face and his left cheek was a bit swollen. Upon query he told us he had a fight with a colleague but did not tell us what it was about. Then one night he lied down next to me and started asking questions like, is it okay for people to make our dick hard? Why does it get hard when someone kiss you? I thought it was awkward for him to ask such questions, so I did some interrogation. To my surprise, his confessions and observation almost made me faint.
The seniors, particularly one senior who is an orphan and permanent resident of the maahad were always sexually taunting the juniors. In one incident the seniors would victimise the juniors by holding one boy down by the hands and legs, and forcing the other juniors to hold the victims’ penis and jerk it until it becomes stiff. Then they will tell the victim to place it in between another juniors’ buttock and the seniors will laugh at this poor children .
The senior bullied the junior boys by forcing each other to give french kisses and watched as these children’s penis become hard. My 10 year old son knew that what was taking place is morally incorrect but at the same time was curious because he never knew how an erection could occur.
He informed the warden and a reshuffle of dormitory students sleeping allocation was made. Unfortunately, the senior boys involved found out that he had made the report and my son was physically attacked and verbally assaulted with degrading remarks. My son retaliated by fighting back and received bruises on his body.
I asked my son for the names of the junior boys who were also sexually molested and alerted their mothers through the Whatsapp messaging service. The mothers were shocked and interrogated their sons and finally got them to confess the things that they had to endure since the transfer took place.
Towards the end of the school holidays, three parents decided to withdraw their sons from the maahad. One parent made a police report however a medical report cited that there was no anal penetration. My son who was traumatised by the incident has refused to continue in this school and we withdrawn him from this mahaad.
I wanted to make a report myself, but my husband, being a fan of this famous Ustaz who was the head of the maahad, decided to make an appoinment with the star himself.
So we contacted the Ustaz’s personal assistant and he asked what is it about. When we told him the issue, he told us off. “If you made a police report, let the police do their work” So I told him we havent, but we will if we don’t get an appoinment with the principle. He gave us a date. We went to see the principal with our son.
The first thing the principal asked our boy was did he understand the allegations and the meaning of ‘liwat’. My son answered saying that it is to put the penis in between the flesh of the buttocks. The principal asked my son to clarify what he saw and my son replied with the same statement. This extremely religious principal then turned to us and said,
‘Madam, that is called an attempt of ‘liwat’ and not the ‘liwat’ itself”. He also stated that, “Attempted rape is not the same as rape” and continued by saying, “ If you take this claim to the court, you will lose.
We have made investigations and we have interrogated the boys involved. None of the victims said there were any penetration and the seniors were only joking with them.
If you make false accusations this means you have put slander on us and we can hit you back. We also have claims that your son being disobedient and started to become a nuisance to the teachers here. With his plunging academic results we are still keeping him here to study but you have decided to take him out as it is your choice. I suggest you take him to the doctor to get himself checked, and make a police report if you like.
As I said, we have backups so you better be careful of what you plan to do.” I was like, hey, my son was sitting there in the same room, a victim of this bully scene and the school decide to protect the offender and the reputation of this instituition, and blackmail the victim instead?
I asked what was the action taken toward the senior who was the mastermind of this sex assault party? They said no one made a statement against him, he made a disclaimer that he was only telling stories and didn’t involve in anything physical. So there was no offence to be taken action of. With the fact that he is the orphan resident of the school (Read: means he is privilleged due to state money channeled to the school in the name of orphanage charity) they could not expel him. We left the school after about 75 minutes of discussion.
We are currently consulting our lawyer and the police, but we have no concrete evidence to show that these events actually took place. All we have now is our son, traumatized, sexually assaulted and confused. The other victims 6 in total including my son have left the school. We have to undertake our own damage control, while the perpetrators still roam free in this so-called prestigious institution led by this famous Ustaz who has denied our son’s right to justice. Since then we have found out that this maahad is not only a Quran learning center but is also a rehabilitation for troubled and spoiled kids.
Sending my son to this miserable hell hole is my greatest regret, as a mother I am angry and am literally burning with fury. I am angry because my son will be forever traumatised by this evil that was done to him by these devils in white robes and serbans. I am not saying that all maahads are the pits of hell, however I am certain many parents out there need to know what is going on and I write to warn you not to sacrifice your innocent children in the name of religion since the Holy Quran is true however it is the devils that practise and teach it that are wrong."
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Part II
(Insiden Maahad Tahfiz Neraka - Perkembangan Terkini. Astagfirullah. Seriousnya baik tangkap ustaz ni. Lagi menghina Islam. Semoga Allah memberi kekuatan kepada ibu dan kanak2 terlibat - Saya amat benci dgn orang yang berlindung disebalik nama, kemasyuran, jubah dan agama- INI SEHARUSNYA DIHENTIKAN!)
Selepas berbincang dengan keluarga & penjaga semua mangsa, kami akhirnya membuat keputusan untuk membuat laporan polis rasmi.
Saya telah menulis semua kejadian dan pelajar-pelajar terlibat di dalam aktiviti buli seksual ini dan menyerahkan kepada pihak polis. Selepas serahan, saya dimaklumkan kes ini adalah tertakluk kepada jenayah sivil dan mereka mencadangkan ianya dipanjangkan kepada Jabatan Pelajaran dan Pejabat Agama Negeri untuk tindakan susulan. Laporan kes buli seksual tersebut dihantar ke D11.
Saya agak terkejut apabila Inspektor di cawangan D11 menyatakan mereka sememangnya tengah menunggu laporan tersebut sejak dimaklumkan oleh HQ Bukit aman tidak berapa lama dahulu. Hari berikutnya, kami pergi ke cawangan D11 untuk berjumpa Inspektor In-charge utk merekodkan pernyataan kami. Saya sebagai seorang reporter masuk terlebih dahulu bersama2 dengan anak saya untuk mengesahkan insiden tersebut.
Pernyataan diambil selama 3jam. Kami juga berbincang mengenai keperluan pemeriksaan oleh doktor dan telah menandatangani borang kebenaran sampel calitan rektum ke atas anak saya tetapi inspektor menyatakan tiada keperluan untuk itu kerana tiada kemasukan kedalam rektum seperti yang diceritakan oleh anak saya. Kemudiaany adalah giliran anak saya untuk ditemubual dan inspektor menanyakan soalan yang sama dan dia mengesahkan semuanya yang dia tau. Apabila Inspektor bertanyakan adakah dia marah dan sekiranya ya, dengan siapakah dia marah? Anak saya menyebut nama pengetuanya.
Bila ditanyakan menagapa? Kerana kami menghormati dia sebagai Tuan Guru dan anaknya sendiri salah seorang yang melakukan salahlaku tersebut dan setiap kali anaknya ereksi, dia akan mencari pelajar junior utk melepaskan nafsunya. Pada ketika itu, air mata saya bergenangan. Tuan Inspektor bertanyakan samada ada lagi yang hendak diceritakan. Anak saya menyatakan ya.
Terdapat satu kejadian dimana mereka bermain papan permainan dan papan permainan tersebut telah rosak dan semua orang menyalahkan dia. Pemilik papan permainan tersebut seorang pelajar senior memintanya untuk membayar RM20 sebagai gantirugi ataupun dia perlu membuat seks oral secara 69 ataupun dia akan dipukul. Dia menyatakan dia tidak mempunyai duit sebanyak itu pada masa tersebut dan dia merasa amat takut.Dia tidak mempunyai pilihan lain selain dari membuat seks oral. Pada masa itu, saya tidak lagi mampu menahan sedih dan menangis dihadapan Tuan Inspektor.
Keesokan harinya saya dimaklumkan yang pihak polis telah pergi Pusat Tahfiz tersebut dan menemubual beberapa orang pelajar, mengambil pernyataan daripada mereka serta bercakap dengan pengurusan. Mereka juga akan mengesan semula pelajar yang telah meninggalkan pusat tahfiz untuk mendapatkan pernyataan mereka. Setelah semua laporan dan sebagainya dikumpulkan, barulah mereka akan membuat keputusan Akta mana yang akan digunapakai untuk pendakwaan kelak. Saya telah pergi ke Jab Agama Islam untuk memberikan salinan laporan.
Ketua Penolong Pengarag Bhg Pendidikan menyatakan mereka telahpun menerima email daripada Jabatan Kebajikan dan sekumpulan superintendan sekolah telah pergi ke pusat tahfiz sebelum laporan polis dibuat dan pengurusan tahfiz pada awalnya keberatan untuk memberikan kerjasama untuk memberi kebenaran menemubual pelajar.Selepas bercakap dengan ustaz selebriti dan memohon kebenaran beliau, barulah ianya dibenarkan. Saya dinasihatkan oleh pihak polis untuk memberikan perhatian khusus kepada anak saya.
Walaupun dia nampak normal dan tenang tetapi dia mungkin memendam kemarahan dan tidak tahu bila ianya akan meletus. Sebarang insiden yang hampir sama dengan yang pernah berlaku akan mencetuskan gangguan emosi. Sebagai seorang ibu mangsa gangguan seksual, saya didalam dilema untuk buatkan dia melupakan apa yang telah berlaku dan pada masa sama saya mahukan ianya diselesaikan termasuk memerlukan dia membuat pengecaman suspek, terpaksa pergi semula ke lokasi kejadian di pusat tahfiz, kerana semua ini akan membuatkan dia dalam trauma. Tidak termasuk gangguan daripada selebriti itu sendiri.Kami berdua harus tabah. Dan kami berdua sepakat untuk teruskan sehingga titik noktah. Kami memerlukan sokongan penuh daripada keluarga dan rakan-rakan, Akhirnya, walaupun kami gagal, kami tau kami berjuang untuk menegakkan kebenaran.
Apapun, saya berbangga kerana dia berani untuk menyuarakan sesuatu yang rakan-rakannya lain tidak mampu lakukan. Kami bersedia berhadapan dengan segala kemungkinan sekiranya undang-undang tidak berpihak kepada kami. Sebagai seorang ibu, saya berharap dia membuka pintu hatinya dan membuat pengakuan sekarang dan menunjukkan sisi buruknya lebih awal. Jika tidak, mereka akan mengabaikan semua keperitan ini dan menganggap ianya sebagai sesuatu yang NORMAL. Tidak, ianya tidak normal dan perlu dihentikan. Memandangkan ramai yang telah meninggalkan pusat tahfiz tersebut, pihak pengurusan telah membuka pengambilan pelajar baru. Adalah satu igauan ngeri memikirkan pusat tahfiz yang dilengkapi CCTV telah menafikan semuanya yang berlaku, dan membuat keputusan untuk mendapatkan mangsa baru. Satu ketakutan yang amat sangat.
Ianya bukan sekadar menjadi pusat pemulihan bagi anak terbuang dan terlalu dimanjakan, malahan menjadi pusat persediaan bagi pedofilia dan homoseksual. Mangsa akan menjadi pemangsa.
Tak dapat dibayangkan tetapi inilah yang sedang terjadi. Kami akan mengumumkan nama tahfiz tersebut sebaik sahaja polis membuat keputusan dan meneruskan dengan pendakwaan.
Sumber : Wardina Safiyyah Official
Syed Azmi
